Healing and unity are all about the Right’s defensive posture toward the center hoping that “civility” will be maintained while they continue to go wilding off the map.  They aren’t capable of establishing a working healthcare system, or handle a pandemic, but sure we all need to help them heal their pride.   The language also suggests any effort by anyone other than them is “damaging”.  It’s gaslighting 101.  Let them claim “Law and Order” while offering none of that.