that streamer or youtuber or artist or actor or person who just makes funny posts is not your friend, your parent, or your therapist. if you like their content so much, don’t make its creation an unpleasant experience for them by invading their privacy and crossing their boundaries. a lot of you will complain about creepy guys hitting on waitresses or people telling baristas way too much personal information and then go and be That Exact Guy to someone who plays video games online, because you think having some level of interactivity with creators means they’re your pet, or them having any sort of personality means they’re a fictional character you get to bury in your sandbox. if you can’t engage with entertainment without doing this you really need to step away from it and work on developing your relationships with people you actually know.