the female gaze being portrayed as only a good thing or only romanticized men is funny but i think we need to consider those sickly skater looking men as female gaze because everyone expects them to be packing heat despite looking like they dont even have enough blood to complete a full circulation of their cardiovascular circuit and i think that is in a similar if not the same vein as when anime characters have toothpick wastes but watermelon sized tits. consider it