the best first date question is obviously "as a kid did you ever just like, burn things". you will be able to gain everything you need to know from their answer or even just their immediate reaction
a few people asking what the right answer is meant to be- there isnt an objectively correct answer, it tells you whatever you need to know
that being said the correct answer for me is "yes, frequently"
okay lots of people adding their answer which is very cool and chill. however some of you are just explicitly confessing to arson which i would personally advise against on a public platform. like just the confession part though. like be gay do fire crimes but dont snitch on yourself
i used to stick rolls of toilet paper on sticks and light them with a magnifying glass to have a torch