tfreitag
asked:
Wasn't trying to be rude. My best friend had MI(myocardial infraction) at 27 and the doctors said he has to loose weight otherwise it can turn into a massive heart attack that can be fatal. But I just don't understand why people just prevent it when it's still early and he's not even that fat either.
eatmydiction1
answered:

It’s incredibly naive when people just assume overweight people had the forethought that they would get fat eventually. That’s not how it works. There are a ridiculous amount of reasons for people to gain weight and saying “well you should’ve prevented it” is fucking asinine and stupid. 100 pounds ago I was 16 years old, go tell a 16 year old to just hire a personal trainer. Hell, a year ago I couldn’t afford a personal trainer. Weight loss isn’t just a thing that happens, it’s really difficult for so many reasons. Not impossible, but a lot harder after years of neglect and obtaining bad habits. The mindset you and lots of other people have doesn’t help anything, it just makes you look ignorant and selfish.

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