actually wait I wanna make this post. it is true that society shames all sexual activity (especially the sexual activity of queer and/or fat people) and it is also true that society expects a certain level of sexual "normalcy" (heterosexual monogamous sex for procreation and intimacy purposes). these are both true and in fact. part of the exact same problem.
the idea that oppression has never contradicted itself is a bold faced lie. nothing is ever simple. there's always a loophole or crossover or whatever. it doesn't have to make sense, it just has to hold certain groups of people down
Bro just don’t be a sexual deviant and nobody cares. Nobody cares you’re gay but when you start wearing bondage gear at a pride parade then it’s a problem.
incredible. I said nothing about kink at pride and somehow you made it about that.