"they" well I remmember that they was for a "colective of more than 2 individuals", but if they preffer it, I'm more than happy in use it, and probably for spanish I need to ask directly to someone speaking that language, well thanks for the head up. :)
Anonymous

I usually use then/them when talking to new people until I learn their preferred pronoun.

Just remember, gender is not determined by what’s in your pants.

So I get that is prefered use the noun with the gender that the pople feel but what if the ... er ... subject? feel not be part of any, the "it" is ok? and wht with languages without a neuter noun like spanish?
Anonymous

Agender people prefer the pronoun “they”