Imagine some white kid in california is trying to convince everyone the movie godzilla is offensive to japanese people.
Nor what if a japanese person comes along and tells the kid to shut up because it’s not offensive.
Logically, the kid should listen to the japanese person and listen to the voice of the people they’re “trying to protect” but instead the kid argues not only with the japanese person but a lot more japanese people who tell the kid it’s not offensive.
That is basically what was happening.
A few people who weren’t trans were trying to tell the trans community what is and isn’t offensive to trans people and when real trans people tried to tell them to stop, they argued. they argued with the people who they were “speaking for”
That is why I am super pissed. Don’t tell me what I should be angry at and don’t tell me I should find something offensive. me and other trans people can speak for ourselves, we DID speak for ourselves and they ignored it.
a-random-mod:
Going to the mall.
I’m back. It went well. First we stopped by a vapor shop and played gamecube while two of my friends shopped. Then we went to the food court but because I’m very self conscious about my voice, I had one of my friends order my food for me. Later I had to go to the bathroom and went to the womans bathroom with two of my friends but I was too nervous to pee. I still flushed and washed my hands like nothing was wrong though. then we went to the arcade and I became queen of air hockey. after that we didn’t do much worth posting.
A few things though, I figured out why to me I never looked good or passable despite my friends claims that I look find. It’s because I know what to look for. And it felt like people were judging me despite them probably not. It was fun but not something I wanna do again for a while.
It’s trans visibility day so I thought I should post a modpic.
I found that having my hair in a ponytail and wearing a hat make my face look sooo much more feminine.
I really wish I had makeup though. But at least I have my breast forms (but my dark cloths make it hard to tell I’m wearing them)
I’m actually planning on going public after having my friend do my hair and makeup on saturday so that will be scary fun.
MOAR BEWB POSTS
They’re small but I think they’re the right size for my frame.
another pic. Higher quality. I like how they feel.
I went to pick up a thing I left at a friends house and after knocking on the door I hear this
Her dad: Who is that
my friend: That's (real name)- I mean Diane. she's just picking up a thing she left here.
me: *smiles like an idiot because she's supporting me when I'm not around*
Okay first off, excuse you. Disney was for the elderly lesbian couple but the couldn’t actually do it or they would risk the entire network getting banned in places like russia and china. If they didn’t have that risk, then that scene totally would have been the way it was supposed to.
"they" well I remmember that they was for a "colective of more than 2 individuals", but if they preffer it, I'm more than happy in use it, and probably for spanish I need to ask directly to someone speaking that language, well thanks for the head up. :)
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I usually use then/them when talking to new people until I learn their preferred pronoun.
Just remember, gender is not determined by what’s in your pants.
