Anonymous said:I meant trans.

Well it wasn’t a decision but I know what you mean. 

I always had tenancies and thoughts but I chose to ignore them and tell myself it was nothing. It wasn’t until events in december that I finally decided to seek help from mastermod and last month I started telling the coop members. I came out on tumblr on sunday.

Agender people prefer the pronoun “they”

Someone who I once considered a friend (Who I don’t want to say because I don’t want any more drama) did a bad. She said she’s fine with me being trans but she doesn’t support transitioning which is a big part of being trans. She also purposefully called me a he and then continued lying. The worst part was that I wasn’t mad, just numb. I just layed down and did nothing for hours after. I mean, I expected to eventually receive hate but I always thought I would get angry.

I’m really proud with you coming out as trans! ^w^ I wish you luck on your transition, and I’m sure you’re going to be absolutely adorable!! I understand how you feel, being trans myself. And BTW I noticed that your description states that you’re an atheistic satanist. I know a little bit about that religion and I think it’s perfectly lovely. I’m an agnostic theist who’s interested in religions so I thought I could get your input about the ideology and your story behind joining it. I’m sure I could do lots of research about it, but having a discussion with someone about something has it’s own rewards that research doesn’t have to offer. 

Thank you. I’ve already had some obstacles such as the fact that Doctors are so expensive and I don’t want to have this show up on my medical insurance because then my father will find out and I know I will have to tell him some day but I want it to already be too late for him to find do anything about it.

Also, about my religion, LaVeyan Satanism is where god and satan are more symbols than actual beings. The gist of what it’s about is that I am my own goddess. I worship myself and I am in charge of my own destiny. I choose my own fate and I’m responsible for my actions. It’s about glorifying oneself while at the same time understanding that nobody else is responsible for the actions of someone.

Thank you for the support.

I really hate it when people act like gender/sexuality is a choice. I guarantee you that it is not and people “choosing” to not be cis/het because they think it would be cool just make it harder for those who actually aren’t cis/het. It actually makes life harder because when they act like it’s a choice, it fuels the mindset that it’s a choice and then stupid shit like ocnversion therapy can get away with abuse.

I still can’t believe that someone was telling asexuals/aromantics that “they will stop thinking valentines day is stupid once they get a boyfriend”

That is like telling someone “oh, you’re not gay, you just haven’t found the right girl”

It is completely dismissing a sexuality/romantic

freewillandphysics:

a-random-mod:

and suffer through all the media and stores and people telling you that you need someone to be happy.

You only think Valentine’s Day is stupid because you don’t have a boyfriend. Just wait until you’re in a relationship. You’ll see…

And here we have someone who does not understand what asexuality/aromantic people are about.

Ace is that you don’t want a partner. most people who are ace have already been in relationships and felt nothing. Everyone telling us that we need someone to be happy is annoying and frustrating.

and suffer through all the media and stores and people telling you that you need someone to be happy.